[CarolinaCutie]

I wish JUST ONCE you'd post something positive or happy about your experiences with Greek life... you always seem to encounter problems. I'm not sure whether your sorority just has major problems, or if you always look for the bad in everything. Either way, I'm very glad I'm not in your situation.

That said, I do know what you're talking about. I'm not sure how big your sorority is... But medium to large size chapters probably cannot avoid some degree of cliquishness (that is TOTALLY not a word) within their groups. Yes, you're all sisters, but different people just have more in common. Sometimes this common factor can be personality, but I've found that it usually has more to do with plain old geography (i.e, people who live in the same dorm tend to hang out together, sisters who are in the same major and share the same classes often study together outside of class). Find your own group of sisters that you can hang out with; try to see who you fit in with the best.