I know you're all right about all of this and it's so depressing. Why buy the cow right? Of course I didn't mean to get attatched, of course I thought it was going to be just a rebound thing, but of course things changed. And now I don't know how to deal. Making myself scarce is tough because we're both busy people, so we don't exactly see eachother every day as it is. And he's SO considerate and SO sweet but SO many guys seem like that but then freak at the possibility of comitment. I guess my main problem is that I really truly hate the concept of playing games- it irritates me to no end when people aren't honest with their intentions and their hopes in a situation. But it seems like being honest with guys tends to freak them out. I'm not talking about being honest like, "wow, we've only known eachother for a few days but I can see myself marrying you". That's just wierd. I'm talking about situations like me and a guy dating for a month, two months, etc, and then discussing with him what's going on and having him freak out at the mere term of dating. I always thought that if you were going to the movies and meeting eachothers friends and hanging out all the time romantically then you're dating but apparently in the mind of every guy I'm with that's just not the case. God I sound bitter. But honestly, so I can't be straight up with him because it might freak him out, but I'm shitty at playing games, so I'm probably just going to mess things up and then I won't need to worry about all of this. Can you tell I'm feeling sorry for myself?
Anyway, thank you for the advice, I'd love to hear even more...