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Hi again
To answer some of your questions.... yes my roommate was an initiatied member of SDT and the organization was unware that she was pledging another sorority. And yes Zeta Phi Beta was aware that she had been an SDT.
KateShort- i agree completely with you that people can change. And i think my roommate did not fit in with the SDT's at my university anymore and i would be all for her becoming part of something that more suited her. But the simply fact is that she doesn't get it. She doesn't get that joining a sorority is a big part of your life and that it is for life. I have never heard her talk bad about SDT in public but what upsets me the most is she acts dumb about Panhel sororities. She asks me questions that i know she knows the answers too because she been through it herself. And the way i hear her talk about Zeta Phi Beta upsets me too. If something upsets her, she just say "whatever, i don't need them." ANd i know that NPHC sororities have 'party walks' they do to certian songs and my roommate trys to teach them! I just don't think she has enough respect.
thanks for all your comments everyone... my roommate (the delta) and i have enjoyed reading them. You've given us more to think about and more reasons to try and understand our 3rd roommates state of mind.
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