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What bothers you more that he/she cc a high ranking frat/soror or that he/she did not come to any of the frat/sorors in the chapter first?
Personally, I would wonder where this person head is. Now, running to Nationals before you join any organization does not make any sense. Prospects can called Nationals, but to write and correspond without going to the local chapter does not make much sense.
I would asked him in the proper time why he/she did not asked the local chapter or graduate chapter his questions. Apparently, he/she might have felt that some frats/sorors will not be truthful to him. That brings up another question. If you enter a chapter with doubts, you may carry that with you for the rest of your frat/soror life. In that case, it would be best to enter the Blue and White light through another chapter you trust more.
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