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I think that it is very honorable for you to stay and help the chapter with their problems (if you choose to do so). In one sense it is the essence of service to others. However, you have to be careful and set boundaries for yourself. Consider yourself a consultant who is being paid by this group for your help (they are paying your dues, aren't they?). Point out the problem, and lead them in discovering the solutions and enacting them. BUT DONT TRY TO DO IT ALL YOURSELF!! If you do that, the chapter will not learn anything, and will fall back into the same problems as soon as you aren't around. In order to make this semester successful, the first thing everyone has to do is prioritize what is most important. They may have to cut back on mixers/socials, and increase sisterhoods/chapter meetings to work on "first things first".
You can also think about it like this: You are an officer who is handing your office over to your successor. You can guide and advise, but you can't continue to do the job; she has to do it. When she asks you to do part of her job, you must refuse, and explain why.
I wish you luck in your decision, and also with NPC recruitment!! If you need anything from me, please let me know!!
PsychTau
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