wow...what a crappy way for a boyfriend to respond to your wanting to be greek! that sucks big time, and i'm sorry it happened.
i have to agree with the others on this board by saying that snagging an independant guy and rushing CAN put a strain on things because the intense commitment really is hard for an independant to understand. a greek boyfriend can be good to have, HOWEVER with your time commitments to your sorority and HIS time commitments to his fraternity, coupled with the "i want to hang with my sisters/brothers tonight" can be a big scheduling problem for "alone" time. did you get that, cause i phrased it kind of wierd. it's a double-edged sword either way. i personally have dated both greek and non-greek men and it's been interesting either way. how 'bout you stop worrying about it NOW and wait until you get to college. :-) you'll be fine!!
etienne
sigma alpha iota-the hartt school of music
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