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Originally posted by amm:
...I was wondering, is this a common reaction to this? I have heard from others in sororities that being in a sorority is all about meeting guys and this girl became inactive (I don't know if this is the right term, but you know what I mean) when she got into a long term relationship. She said that you don't really want a non greek boyfriend if you are in a sorority.
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amm,
Just like any other opportunity in life, greek life is as much to you as you make of it. I can imagine that for some, sorority life is largely a social opportunity, running the gamut from meeting guys to forming lifelong frienships/sisters to networking. Social opportunities aren't the limit of sororities, and it's up to the individual to decide what you want to make of your membership.
I would ask your friend to explain the reasoning behind why a greek woman would want only a greek man as an SO. Personally, I don't agree with that point of view, having dated both greeks and non-greeks. However, it does seem to work for some people.
Whatever your choices in life, take a critical look at why something would or wouldn't work for
you.
It's your life, after all.
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