I think approaching relationships in terms of Mr. Right Now is probably healthy. And then allowing that relationship show if it is the one.
It gets you out there dating more often.
As far as people "saying" that they realize that the person is not the right one but is going to hang out with it anyway . . . might be a little like believing someone's press releases.
Its pretty common for humans to say lots of rules, woulds, coulds, and shoulds but act pretty differently.
Otherwise, as you said Valkyrie, people would just move on to the right one.
If nothing else it has to be awfully hard to look around for that One Special Someone when you are spending the vast amount of your time with someone you are can't imagine being with.
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