[astroAPhi]

You know what, MSTUgirl, I've been where you were... as a matter of fact, I was there only last semester. We weren't causing trouble like your chapter was, but I definitely felt a lack of sisterhood. I actually quit another organization that I was VP of because they were breaking rules and things were absolutely awful. I've never been happier.

Your decision may have been the best for you... it sounds like your situation was worse than mine. But I do want to send a note of encouragement to other girls about how you can fix your problems. In all honesty, I realized that our problem was really 2 girls with very negative attitudes. Since one was actually our President, it pervaded the entire sorority.

I spoke up about it. We held a chapter forum and I aired out all my problems. Girls in my sorority who are normally too proud to admit they're wrong walked up to me and said, "Nicole, I am sorry for treating you so badly."

Those of you who are frustrated-- PLEASE talk to your sisters. Because if you feel that way, I can almost bet that someone else feels the same.