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When should I call her- It would be the easiest and most "unassuming" to show up at the end. You can each get a clearer look at each other. Then, face to face, say (in YOUR cool way) wanna do something this weekend..like have dinner/movie/bowling/putt-putt/clubbing? Less pressure and clear cut results-either yes or no.
If you miss her at the mixer, then call her next day and do the "I was thinking about you blah-blah-blah, hoped I'd see you last night," more blah-blah. "Wanted to ask if you would like to do something"
Maybe a better alternative (since its THURSDAY) is to call and ASK if she is going to the mixer say you wanted to see her (NOT I've been meaning to call)...it could just ease into asking her out.
If you have a double set up, make SURE they are the open, friendly type who everyone can get along with and won't focus on themselves or the relationship between the three of you.
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