Loreli- please don't feel bad!
We only want you to have the best experience possible with Greek Life. It's perfectly normal to decide you "have to be an ABC" to start with, and maybe you will be in one of the ones you like best, or perhaps when you meet them you'll go, "What was I thinking??"
Please don't stop asking questions here, because there are sooo many wonderful people on this forum who can offer different viewpoints on any Greek issue you can think of. If I hadn't found GC before I went through rush in 2001, who knows what would have happened? I might have become frustrated & dropped out, or I might have joined a different sorority for the wrong reasons.
Go with your heart! No matter where you end up, as long as you're happy there, we'll all be happy for you!
