It's funny this thread came up. There's been talk on a campus that I advise of raising ceiling to 70. I'm very frustrated because the chapter and I (along with the other advisors and alum) just worked very hard to get these girls about halfway to ceiling. There are 6 houses that are at the current ceiling (60), one almost at ceiling and the other 4 about half of that. Personally I'd like them to wait. The chapter I have isn't even the smaller group and if they wanted to raise it that high, they could invite back the sorority that closed in 1998.
SIGH, I guess there isn't really much I can do. I really feel for the girl you know carnation. I also understand that not everyone wants to join every sorority, it's just difficult to accept.
Okay sorry I'm a little off topic, I'm just a little upset!