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Holly, I'm so sorry that you are upset. I know you must be feeling really terrible, so I guess the first thing that I should tell you is: calm down. This situation is not important enough to run the risk of getting yourself ill again.
If I were you, I would wait until Wednesday before doing anything. See what your grade in the incomplete class turns out to be. At that time, if it puts you above Good Standing, go to your Chapter Adviser and show her the grade. Talk to her one more time. She could probably reopen the discussion at the next EC meeting.
If she says she can't--or won't--reopen the discussion, listen to exactly her reasons why she won't do it. She may very well want to consider this semester's grade, but AGD procedures may not allow her to. Keep in mind that we must abide by the chapter's constitution and bylaws, as well as IHQ's rules. Maybe there is a rule in place that prevents it. I don't know if this is the case or not--but just check to see.
If the situation is not resolved after speaking to your adviser--and only after speaking to your adviser--would I consider speaking to someone on the VST or your PD-C. If something can be resolved on the chapter level, it absolutely should be resolved there. Bringing in the *big squirrels* prematurely can cause a lot of hard feelings. I don't think that is your intent at all.
Anyway, I hope this helps somewhat. I really hope this works out for the best. Just remember that Alpha Gam is a whole lot more than serving as an officer. You should not let this discourage you; nor is this an excuse for you to give up on Alpha Gam. OK? OK.
PM me anytime you like. I would like to know how things go.
LIEP,
Maria
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