Well, I let my man stay at my apartment while I went to work one day so he could let the cable guy in. I didn't know it at the time, but after we broke up, he told me how he went through EVERYTHING in my apartment (my drawers, under my bed, closets, etc.). We had dated for almost two years and this happened. That's not why we broke up, but when we did and he told me that, I felt so betrayed. If he wanted to see anything in that apartment, he was welcome to it. All he had to do was ask...anyway, I digress. I think once y'all are married, it's the right time to leave each other alone in Y'ALL's house!