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Originally posted by James
Uh, there is a very little excuse for an objectively attractive girl to be ina dating slump.
No only do guys in general pay more attention to you, but if you are a little bit agressive you should be able to pick a lot of guys up.
If you aren't the kind of girl that will be the agressor then you are forced to be at the mercy of whichever guy tries to pick you up. Not a situation indicative of a lot of choice lol.
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As usual, I agree with James.
A lot of times, if you are an attractive woman, guys won't always approach you, or if they do, they're the obnoxious, player guys. Why? Because if you're attractive, the nicer, cooler guys may be a little intimidated, or they may assume that you're already with someone else. That's why making the first move can be a great thing -- because then YOU are taking control of who you meet. If you wait for guys to talk to you, you are taking the risk that you are going to meet aggressive, but not quality, guys.
So I would say that to get out of your slump, you might want to consider getting out there and talking to the people you see out that YOU would like to meet. Also, if you're not all about the fraternity guys at your school, get out to bars or other places where you can meet some non greek men and see how that works.
Good luck, and keep us posted!
