[annice22]

I had a good big sis'. Since she's graduated and moved away I don't really see her. The only thing I regret is I did not get a chance to attend her wedding. I did not have my driver's license yet nor did I know anyone near me to get a ride. Also, I regret that she was not at my initiation, but but her fiance was who is in the army was being shipped out of state. I understood I just wish we were able to celebrate together. You only get initiated once. But I did get a chance to see her over last year's spring break and had a good time. My big was the best we would talk all the time, go out and party and study. She was really great with teaching me my information about the sorority.

To be quite honest I haven't had the best luck with lil's. My first lil' was a legacy member, but she did not have a handle on her studies (she flunked out), she could not handle her drinking with starting a scene at mixers when it was time to leave, lying to people, making out with too many boys. Our relationship did not really get a chance to grow because she was kind of boy crazy and guys were a little more important to her. But now that she has moved to a different state, our relationship has grown even more. We e-mail each other and IM each other a lot. I think that she has grown up a little bit and now realizes her actions. She might try and visit me this year.

My second lil' I can't not stand her. She is so crazy. A couple days before she was initiated she declared in a meeting that she hated the sorority and did not want to be here. But she claimed that she only said that because she was stressed out and did not know why she was being sent to j-board. Hey we were all stressed. In my opinion she should not have been initiated but our president gave her a second chance. Oh a week before she gave the out burst in our meeting. Her and another girl who was a new member decided that they could tell an active (me) to leave a fraternity house by coming into there house un-invited. They were yelling at me. So, I sent both of them to j-board for desrecting an active member. They basically cost me my date to our date party and having his brother harass me. The sad thing is no one like either of the two girls.

She doesn't want to do anything sorority related or non sorority related. She acts like she's 16 years old but she's over 21 and behaves like a child.

I hope it doesn't make me sound bad but I haven't had a chance to voice my opinion about my lil's. If it was up to me I would choose not to have anymore lil's unless they have a psy evaluations.