[starang21]

Originally posted by White_Chocolate
touchy subject

i'm black and because the nphc sorority that i wanted wasn't on my campus but i soooo badly wanted to be greek. i rushed npc.

i went through rush with this preconceived notion that no one was going to want me. . .because i was the oddball and everyone else was blonde with the exception of a brunette. the brunette and i ended up hanging out all during rush. we didn't think we'd get in anything.

i thought that i was going to get cut after the first night. however, i ended up getting invited back to all of the sororities including the 'it' sorority. on into the week, i got cut from one sorority because of GPA but then again, so did half of the rush group. anyway, by the last night, i was torn between the 'it' sorority and phi sigma sigma. i cried for an hour because i didn't want to cut someone in the event that i didn't get either sorority. however, after talking to my rho chi, i made the heartfelt decision and put phi sigma sigma as my choice.

the greatest feeling was on bid day, i was so nervous that i waited as long as possible to go get my bid card. but when i went down to get it and walked out with my rush class. . .the phi sigs tackled me to the ground. i swear i wanted to start crying there.

so, if you go through rush(and unless you feel like they are blatantly not wanting you because of race), you'll end up with a group.

i am now vice archon of my chapter. . .and the brunette. . .well, she's my archon.


'We ain't going nowhere. . .we can't be stopped.. .because we're Phi Sigs for life. . .' (P. Diddy version by dj Mo B)

if that particular sorority was truly in your heart, you should have checked out other schools that have it.