my big was a senior when i was s sophomore and she spent a lot of time driving 2 hours away to see her boyfriend. she was really sweet but was never at our meetings, and the only times i got to hang out with her where at formals and other functions. once we were supposed to go to a big party together, but she never called me to pick me up (it was about 20 mins away), and so i assumed she forgot about me. she told me the next day she got so drunk and in a fight with her boyf she had to go to bed at 8 or something. anyway...i think my family has a curse on it or something, b/c my little is cool but we never hang out either. i try to have dinner with her occasionally, and ive tried to get her to go out with me, but she always has people visiting or something, and she hasnt even gone to many of our sorority functions so we never get to see one another. its very frustrating, but i can't force it. we get along fine, we just don't seem to click. at homecoming, i tried to get her to come find me at this party and meet my big (her grandbig), and it took her like 2 hours and 10 phone calls to finally come over, and even then she said the place sucked and left 5 mins. later. she barely spoke to my big, and i was kinda offended...so maybe she is not as cool as i thought, but sometimes she can be really sweet and nice. i dunno...its frustrating, thats all.
