I didn't get my big until the middle of my pledge semester and then the semester after i was initiated, she went on senior status and graduated after that spring. so she wasn't around as much when i was a newbie. however, we exchange emails and letters and phone calls now and then. we finally saw each other this last semester after being away from each other for 3 years. she is now engaged and is getting married in the summer. i couldn't be happier for her and i know she is thinking of me even tho she is in a different city.
i have two lils. one i live with and have had since my first active semester. we started out kinda awkard cuz i wasn't her first choice and she wasn't mine, but we have lived together as roomies for 2 years now. she got really involved with her boyfriend and work so i didn't see her as much and we didn't really hang out this last semester. but she is going thru a rough breakup now and it created a lot of tension in the apartment. i hope things can get better between us.
my other lil is older than me and i thought we had a lot of odd things in common... her now ex was named Ian (my dad's name) and he lived in Hayward (my hometown). Unfortunately I went alumna last semester so I didn't really get to hang out with her as much except when she was a new member. but we had good lil talks about life and whatnot. and she is fun to party with.
the thing i like the most about my lil is that they are both at least 9 inches taller than me... so they are my big lils
