My family is kinda cut-throat about getting who we want... My big fought for me... and we were close until she kinda distanced herself from the sorority because of stress...and I so understand... our family also has this thing with people usually not liking us... (yes its happening to me too - yet they all like my little...)
I wanted my little for my little the second I met her... and she wasnt rushing yet! I knew her through her best friend... and I was like "DOOD, thats my little!" I was so happy she waited until Spring!
We chose my two little Jen, together. I told Sarah, my lil, that Jen was totally awesome and when she met her, she agreed! (Jen is SO my mini me!!!!) She also broke the family curse! (more on that in a sec!)
We all again, chose Erin, my three little (Im showing my age...) she was a bit crazy like all of us...but it worked!
**My Phi Sig family curse...
The farthest I know back is Nicole, my 3. Nicole had a little...she got in...and then disaffiliated. Then she got Maura. Maura got a little, Julie... Julie got a little... Brianne... Brianne got in, disaffilated, Julie got me (second time is sooo much better!) I was told that I was not allowed to leave, and I took it to heart, thinking about it when I had hard times and wanted to... then I got Sarah... Sarah got Jen... Jen got in... AND STAYED! And broke the curse!! It goes farther back than Nicole!
My TBS big, we arent really close... we kinda just dont click... but my TBS little... she was already my friend!!!!