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My big was the best. She was a mentor in every sense of the word, not to mention the prettiest and coolest girl in the chapter (IMO). My 2big and 3big were awesome also. We had fun together, and she was always there for me. We now work in the same building, albeit 30 floors apart.
My little pledged with her roommate and best friend, and while I liked her a lot, I think that she was so independent I didn't get to play as much of a mentor role as I wanted to - plus she was always with her best friend. We got along well, but I never felt the same relationship w/ her I had w/ my big. My little little I refer to as my little - she pledged partly cause of me, and she is my best friend. So I do feel a little better that it was kept "in the family."
My only recommendation would be don't pick someone as a little who comes in as part of a "package deal" - they tend to already be tight w/ the people they pledged with. If you have freshman rush though, that probably won't happen.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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