I definately think there is a difference between being "in love" with someone and just loving them. You can love a lot of people and a lot of things, but I think when you're in love with someone, they're your world and you'd do whatever you have to, to be with them. I dunno, it's hard to explain, but I don't think it's just some lame excuse girls use to get out of a relationship. At least I don't use it like that....