At Nebraska letters at a party, or even to the bars is a big party foul. It's one of the first things we tell pledges when they move in for the fall.
Usually, b/c parties at Nebraska are almost exclusively off-campus, other fraternity members don't know where everyone's party houses are, which therefore cuts down on the number of random fraternity guys. Our biggest problem comes from just randoms who may or may not come with girls and somehow find out about the event. We tend to ask them to leave b/c they are a risk management issue, and usually wont' treat girls the way they will be treated by the brothers.
There are only a few times I can remember when a lot of guys from another chapter have been to one of our party houses and they have all been for afterhours following huge parties we've thrown (I'm talking our top three biggest parties after Initiation and the camping date party we call Dynamo). In a sense they have been invited for afterhours and are not a big deal.
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