Do you mean for him to wear our letters or you to wear his? From my understanding it is a huge deal - and sometimes frowned on if you swtich letters-something about not earning the right to wear it or something. But some fraternities to still drop girls- give them the fraternities letters to wear. But if you mean for him to buy you your letters and you him I don't think thats a big deal. Oh I was the sweetheart to a Phi Mu Alpha chapter and they said there was a policy were I could not wear their letters. Hope this helps
