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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
True. Responsibility is important...
Yet, why is it such an "issue" if someone casually wants to crank? If the adults MUTUALLY agree to crank, what's the problem? Why is it that women are looked down on if she cranks on the first encounter or so? Evidently, it's what she wanted AT THE TIME. (LOL) Maybe she isn't looking for a relationship....just a good CRANK! Maybe she doesn't want to talk after the fact either. Therefore, no love lost...just frustrations and tension. 
Just a thought...
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Since I am a woman, my perspective comes from that point of view and I guess I neglected to say that some men as well as some women go insane when the person who they have CRANKED with doesn't acknowledge them after the fact. I don't look down on women who crank on the first date. I do, however, believe that EVERYBODY should be ready for whatever happens, men included. I, of all people, certainly have NO ROOM to look down on a woman who wants to get down on the first date. It's the aftermath that gets some people into trouble.