Also from a girl's POV, but totally different from Mandy's thoughts on the issue. At USC guys from other frats are pretty much strictly forbidden from another frats parties. There are a few exceptions, but not many!
At USC, most frat parties go something like this: The frat having the party puts up a gate or something around their lawn and have a single entrance which usually has outside security (but occasionally just some bros) acting as bouncers. Every bro (and pledge) gets a wristband or something to indicate to the security that they are allowed in. Then for all other guys (Greek or not) wanting to attend the party they have to be on a list that the frat compiles at chapter of their close friends that they know want to come. This list usually also includes all the stars of the sports teams too, just because if they are there, it makes the frat look cool. If a guy wants to go to the party, and he is not a bro, a sports star, or on the list, then he must have at least three girls wiht him that will tell the bouncer they arent coming in unless he can come too.
If a guy manages to get in and a bro doesn't approve or if a girl complains about a non-bro, he is thrown out immediately. Also, some frats also have a strict non-entry list where certain names are definately not allowed in. These usually include the new boyfriends of bro's ex's, guys that depledged, and other stuff like that.
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