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I think everyone who joins a sorority changes...sometimes for the good, sometimes for the bad...however, they change.
BUT...life is full of change, and I think if people understand that people change and friendships change, it's possible to remain friends, maybe even closer friends.
I totally understand where you are coming from. I joined DZ my freshman year during fromal recruitment...but my two best friends from highschool decided that the sorority thing just wasn't for them and decided not to rush. And to be honest, at first there was a strain on the friendship. They told me that I changed, and it wasn't a bad thing, it just happens. I think if you try to introduce your non-greek friends to your sisters, that might help. I also think it's important to make time for your old friends...you know that saying....make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver the ther is gold.......I think it's true.
It will work out. Giving those things some time, and making a conscious effort to stay friends (if that is what you truly want) will help it all unfold and it will turn out fine.
As for me, my two best friends from highschool are still two of my closest friends in the whole entire world. I spend time with my sisters, I spend time with my non-greek friends....and I'm sure it will work out that way for you too. The most rewarding things in life take a little bit of effort. Just do your part to make the friendship work, and if it's one of those true blue friendships you guys will stay close!
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