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Part of the problem may be that you really are changing. You are not the same person you were in high school and who wants to be? The house probably has nothing to do with the changes and they would have taken place whether you had pledged or not. You are just in a different place in your life. Your friend probably has also changed and instead of looking at what is happening as something natural and a relationship that needs some adjustment as you make life changes, it is FAR easier to blame the house.
Try to stay friends, and hopefully in time, you will both see how much you have both grown and it will strengthen the relationship rather than tear it apart
DaffyKD
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