[33girl]

If you are making all the gestures, setting apart time to do things with her and staying interested in her life...well, if that isn't enough for her, then phooey on her. Sometimes when people fail, the only way they can keep up their self-esteem is to degrade everything & everyone associated with the thing they failed at. Of course you are going to change, but so is she...you both should change...that's what growing up is about.

If your Greek status is so hard for her to deal with that she can't maintain a friendship, it will be hard, but move on. Everyone has times with their friends where they are up & their friend is down. If you can only be friends with someone if they're at the same place you are, it's not really friendship.