Call it programming, training, upbringing, a mans world, or whatever! I don't make the rules. We do live in a society where equality among the sexes does not exist! MOST female children are trained to keep their legs closed until marriage and for men - well - I don't think I was told anything about the frequency of sex partners or what the appropriate time is. It was just said - "don't be out there making babies you can't take of and put a rubber on if you gonna be fast! Let's face it! MEN JUST ARE NOT looked upon harshly for sleeping around. I'm not saying its right. I'm just saying this is how it is - -
Now women - everybody knows that EVEN women call girls fast, hoes, . . . and all the rest if a female gives it up too often and too quickly! This is nothing new. Don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about!
Seriously, I can't answer the question why men and women are not both viewed equally as it relates to sexual behavior. I will agree that it is the same principle be it a man or woman sleeping around. However, realistically it's just not viewed the same.
On another note - that show sex in the city that comes on HBO. Can you imagine a sister on tv telling everyone she's black, independent and will %*&k any and everything she wants.
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Originally posted by Sexy Mocha:
Like my Soror asked....What about the man's sexual behavior??? Professor, what if this "good girl" finds out about some of your past indiscretions?
As far as morals and values counting anymore...does this apply to men as well? If we passed up every "around the way" man and waited for a virgin "good boy" to come along...I imagine we would be waiting for a LONG time!
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