[Sistermadly]

Yes, there's such a thing as a good guy -- I know: I married one. However, everyone's opinion of what makes a "good guy" differs, so I won't go into detail about what characteristics you should look for. I will say that what helped me was to sit down one night and really think about what I wanted from a partner, and what I had to offer a partner. I was really clear about the things I would and wouldn't tolerate, and I wrote them down clearly in my journal. Four months after I did that, a guy walked into my life who became my husband 18 months later.