It troubles me that "a girl who doesn't want to hug someone considered a CAT".

In truth, I think women would be wise to listen to their instincts, rather than dismiss them and compromise their boundaries. There certainly are enough young ladies out there who don't have a sound concept of boundaries. Sororities educate their members on alcoholism, eating disorders and acquaintance rape...what about teaching women about respecting their own boundaries and listening to their instincts?

I am somewhat troubled that a woman would feel obligated to hug a complete stranger, even if he was from a "brother" fraternity.