I agree with Zeta Ace that it is NOT written constitutionally to "hug" frat and Sorors but it is definitely protocol. Some members oblige and I've seen others that don't. It all depends on the person. I have friends in other frats that ask why I hug my frat when I see them... I feel like I don't have to explain...it "seems" obvious.
I have seen Sorors who shook hands with Bruhs because they may have not wanted to "deal" with some of the other gestures that (sometimes) comes along with a hug, but that is their prerogative.
Additionally, I have seen women "change" ways after say getting into a serious relationship/getting married where they aren't hugging all up on the Bruhs anymore. Some men (particularly GDIs) find it disrespectful to hug any man, especially really close not to mention 5 or 10 men at any given function.
To answer gloriajean's question, some people would describe a person who merely shook hands with frat NOT TO MENTION Sorors as being...how do you say...CAT!!!
Those who know what that means, you know what that means...those who don't...
Just my $19.13.
PEACE ALL!!!
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