Well, I guess "I'm a sucker for cornrows and manicured toes.." Just kidding.
For me, it has always depended on the woman. Common denominators that are always attractive to me are intelligence, confidence, compassion and a great sense of humor. In my younger days, I am proud to say that some women that I dated were considered by most to be fat or otherwise physically unattractive but I didn't care because they had sexy personalities. And it wasn't that I was unattractive...I was fairly cute and buff, back in the day...was president of my college chapter and all. So, I dated all kinds of women.
All that said, If a woman looks good, I don't mind seeing her scantily clad or butt naked!!! In my younger days, that was all good, even though I also liked other things (listed above). In my opinion, there is nothing quite like a beautiful black woman.
But, I am older now (38) and have a five year old daughter. My perspective has changed over the years. Watching women "back that ass up" on my TV screen is not really interesting anymore. My wife dresses quite plainly, with no make-up. She is beautiful naturally, although she would probably be even more attractive if she dressed up and the whole nine yards. But we don't live that way and I find her to be completely appealing.
So, I'm all over the map on this one. Physical beauty is not the most important thing in life. But it is damn nice. Or it was nice for me back in the day. Now, I am old-school and married, so the booty videos do not impress me at all.
On the other hand, I will always stop to savor any video that Toni Braxton is in!!!!
Can I get an Amen from my peeps in the house?
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