[blackcoffee]

[i] I think if we would remind ourselves that this earth is ONLY a stopping place we may remember where our ultimate destination is, and we have to live our lives with that in mind. If you have causual sex or you destined to be banned to hell? Of course not, our God forgives. I myself struggle with the issue of being engaged but not married to my son's father. However when we willingly do something we KNOW does not please God, we should make an effort to correct those actions rather than dwell in them, and blame it on the times we live in. [/B]

Well said!!