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Originally posted by Ideal08:
Ok, this is about these scantily clad women in these videos (and everywhere else). Ok, me and my ex were watching TV the other day, and this lady said that she felt that men were immature the way that they have these women dressed in these videos. My ex got offended and said that women need to understand that that is what men want to see. Ok, I understand that sex sells. I also understand that men like to look at these women dressed like this. I bear no double standards. The D'Angelo video was sexy as hell. However, I wouldn't want to see men like this in every video.
My question is this: What else do men find physically attractive/sexy about a woman besides her being half naked?
Is it the presentation? Like the Bilal video for Soul Sista. I think that's a sexy video that was done much more tastefully than these boody bouncing videos.
Enlighten me, Frat, tell me what yall think!
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I think as "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", so is "sexy". I think the challenge for ladies today is NOT to show it, but to leave it up to the imagination of the man. When a lady with the "right contour" comes into a club dressed casually, baggy sweatshirt and baggy fitting pants, her bodyparts will say hello-despite what she wears. Even though she's fully clothed, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know she has a nice body. When my woman and I go out dressed casually, most of the men in the club notice her for the same reasons I did. Her eyes, her lips, her hair, her face, HER BODY; it all comes together SO WELL, and she doesn't even have to flaunt it!!!
Yall know the way yall do yall's lips when yall sayin': uhm hum! (that little pucker)? Well, that's sexy to me. The way yall stand when yall are justifiably angry; and the way yall sit when yall are tryin' to be "provocative", that too, is sexy to me. There are many ways for all of yall to increase yall's sexual appeal to a man WITHOUT TAKIN' IT OFF.