Good Points jaz.....Well, I'm praying that if God has the marriage and the family instored for me, please let him be real.
I'm almost 27 and I don't know what my future holds for the children thing. However, I definately want to be in the safest spiritual and financial condition possible. Too many people have luggage and I don't want my future children to be weighed down with the problems of their parents. So, I believe God is preparing me for something I cannot handle now.....See, this world is gone crazy, look at Jesse Jackson!!! Now he should know better!!! Now his grandchildren have an aunt the same age!! That is some heavy (LUGGAGE)!!! Trust me I don't want to have my children carrying that much.
Sex is powerful, children are a lifetime and God is the Lifeline....so, I choose my life line.
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Originally posted by jazbri:
Wanted so badly to stay away from this one; but, I can't resist.
One general comment, a man is never deceived into conceiving a child. If he's protecting himself, he should be 99.9% safe from impregnating a female. For the other .1%, his decision to sleep with her should include the remote chance that a child may come of it and be prepared. For those men that believe that his responsibility is removed by the female stating she's protected, well I can only say ya stupid!
In regards to those biological ticking clocks, I'd say not to rush into anything. Because nothing is promised to us and there are no guarantees, choose wisely. Even under the best circumstances, marriages end in divorce and both parents will still be responsible for that child. Waiting to find that person that you think is your life-long partner doesn't necessarily mean that you are now ready for parenthood.
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