I was talking to some younger women in their early 20's about this issue and they said to me, that some women will have these guy's babies because they want them so much that they will get them any way they can--either way, this man will be a part of my life, forever, through this child...
Personally, I find that disturbing to me. Some people aren't meant to be in your life. I think of it as, when you are constantly stuggling trying to include a person in your life and this person is resistant to all you kind suggestions to spend time with each other, then that means to me that God does not want this person in your life. And the more and more to fight against God's will, the more and more He cannot protect you from could happen. So I believe, if a woman is impregnanted by a man that does not care for her, then she just allowed biology to consume her more than what God's will was for her...
Be not deceived, for God is not mocked. Whatever man soweth, therefore shall he also reap...
We can always say it takes 2 to tango. But realistically, the bottomline is that the woman will take most of the burden as a never been married, single parent. Maybe this biology is so powerful that all interventions made by others cannot override the heat of passion??? What I don't understand is what is going through a woman's mind? What was she thinking? If you lay with dogs, you can get fleas!!! So let sleeping dogs lie... But what do I know anyway... I'm still single, alone and childless
