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While I agree that bigs and littles should have a strong bond, I also think that they should be well matched, personality wise. I joined in my sophomore year, and my big wound up being a girl I had a class with, simply for the sake that I didn't know the others as well and I figured she was nice. Well, she was nice, but our personalities totally clashed. And, everytime I tried to hang out with her or anything, she never wanted to. And she never asked me to hang out. After that first semester, I was ignored, basically. At the beginning of my senior year I had a class with her, and she wouldn't even acknowledge me. Needless to say, I felt pretty bad. However, there had been a senior who would have been a perfect match for me. We could be twins! And she's always been there for her littles that she took. I would have preferred a close relationship with a long distance big than a nonexistent one with a sister at school. As it turned out, another girl adopted me fall semester of my senior year, seeing as how for all intentions I was basically an orphan. She's in the same family as the senior I wanted to be matched with.
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