Well I'm not saying that just because you know someone that means you'll know whether they'll deceive you into having a baby because there is no way to be 100% about anyone. But it definitely is a hell of a lot better to know them and love them than to sleep with someone you don't know at all.
And my main point is that you cannot be deceived because everyone knows that pregnancy is a possible consequence of sex no matter how safe you are. I say again, when one has sex you have to go into it thinking, 'what would I do if I had a baby at this point and with this person'. If the answer is, 'I have no idea', then maybe one should take time to think about that before they have sex.
And in this day and age, most of the marriages where people get married because of a baby don't last, usually because those people didn't REALLY know each other in the first place, not mature enough to handle the consequences of their actions, or weren't in the mind set of wanting to be committed anyway. But back in the day, most of these type of marriages would last. I'm not saying they were the best marriages but they did what they had to do for their children. My grandparents, parents, my boyfriend's parents, and many other older couples I know were married at a young age due to a baby (not to say they maybe wouldn't have gotten married anyway) but all of these couples made it or make it work because that's what you were supposed to do. If you were grown enough to make certain decisions, then you better be grown enough to deal with the consequences in a responsible, respectful manner that is best for the child who did not have a choice in all of it.
Can you all tell that I have strong opinions on this
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