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Originally posted by NUPE4LIFE
So that brings me to the topic, do we as in-laws, family and friends really understand that our role is to be a sympathetic ear but not to get involved to the point where it threatens the union, even if we feel it's in our loved ones best interest.
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In-laws, family, and friends threatening the union? PLEASE!! You started out telling us that there is a "sadistic cycle of HER infidelities." Isn't SHE the one threatening the union?
I don't believe in interfering in other people's business, but as humans and loved ones, we find it only natural to offer input. No one wants to sit around and see their friends, family, etc. messed over by ANYONE. If their problems are between them and God, no one (except God and a beloved clergymember that they could confide in) should even know their problems. Evidentally, s/he told someone about them. Just like it is human nature to discuss their problems, it likewise that we offer "advice," no matter how good or bad it is.