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				Originally posted by KillarneyRose  
I can't stand my husband's family for many reasons large and small.  I just deal with them whenever I have to. 
I don't remember who said the guy would pick his family over his significant other every time, but I wholeheartedly disagree.  
 
If it came down to my husband having to choose between them and me, he would choose me.  If I didn't believe he would put me and our children first in his life, I never would have married him. 
			
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 I meant my statement about "he will choose if family everytime" if he's extremely close w/them and you choose to estrange yourself from them. Kind of like the, "Well, since they're not good enough for you..then I'm not" scenario 

 -Not- if his family is actually nuts and/or disrespectful to his SO.