Brotha Ape,
But it still took you some time to get over the crap... I understand you love something that came from a part of you, OF COURSE, I wouldn't expect any less. In fact if you didn't, I would call you a luser.
But, why did it make you mad at first? --You are the one the slept with yo baby's mama and got her pregnant??? How could you NOT know? Was it the moment of passion for one night stronger than what's best for me and my psyche for the rest of my life? I'm clueless--I just don't understand.
The woman I know that recently is expecting... She said some chit like, "Oh, we're not thinkin' about (marriage) right now..."
WTF!!!! She met the jikka at MY HOUSE a YEAR AGO!!! They've been an item that long!!! Sooner or later, feelings were gonna run deep for both parties. So, how the hell were both of them NOT gonna EXPECT SOME LEVEL OF FORMAL COMMITMENT THAT SHINED???? So her only recourse was to "uops-honey, I'm pregnant???" That is just some stupid assed chit a 17 year old pulls!!! Not a 30-something year old...
My measurement of commitment level is he has a 3 month turnaround time. If I don't hear something remotely like "we need to get a little closer" type chit, then I bounce. No sense in draggin' a MF--wait til he figga he wants me... Wait til he's ready fo me... Yeah, whateva. NEXT!!! But that's just me.
[This message has been edited by AKA_Monet (edited April 01, 2001).]
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