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Originally posted by kappaloo
What makes closer ties - forced ties, or the ties you choose?
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Well we clearly chose our respective organizations or at least chose to accept their bids. So in that respect we've already chosen our ties. It's not wrong to challenge a new member to do something that requires that they work together. Just don't haze. As Mysticat81 said the group should definitely be up front with what is expected of new members. Make them aware of the time committments.
If you recruit people because they like your parties you get people that are there to party. If you recruit people by saying that it's a challenging experience but it'll change your life you'll get people interested in a life changing experience. Which would you rather have?