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Old 12-19-2002, 08:55 AM
kddani kddani is offline
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I'd like to ask WHY you want to take another little the semester that you graduate?
Coming from a chapter that in the past sometimes HAD to let seniors take littles (i took one fall of my senior year, i kind of had to b/c of numbers, but it wasn't a big deal b/c I was staying in the area after graduation- she's now my roommate), this usually isn't a good thing. You need more than half a semester to truly bond with a little. There's only been one occasion that I remember that a senior took one in spring. She was graduating in the fall, but wouldn't be active after the spring. She made all these promises about being around for her little, but she wasn't. She showed up to maybe 2 things, and now doesn't even keep in contact with her. I was only with MY big for 2 semester, she ended up having to leave school, and that was rough sometimes not having a big as I went through things. We still keep in contact though, and we've had a strong bond since I met her pre-rush.
Please, taking littles is a blast (i have 3 of them!), but think of them. As much fun as it can be now, it's going to suck when you're not there. It's not really fair to them.
Let someone else have the chance to take a little and experience the fun.
Fall of my senior year there were only a couple girls that didn't take littles. I would've gladly gone without one for one of them to have one, but sadly, the rankings didn't work out that way and they weren't even remotely on some new members lists. I thought it was fair that I'd already had the joy of a little twice, and my greediness for littles (I LOVE BIG LITTLES!) wasn't right to justify not giving someone else the chance.
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