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Old 12-19-2002, 02:17 AM
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Re: The "pledging" process- easy come easy go?

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Originally posted by Dionysus
When members go through tougher "pledging" do you believe it will make more loyal members out of them opposed to those going through lighter "pledging"?
As for tough by meaning difficult or challenging I would potentially agree with you on that. It needs to challenge them in some way. It needs to help them answer questions for themselves and understand that they are making a lifetime committment. Not necessarily more "loyal" as you put it but probably more stable. If you make it like a club where you fill out a membership form and you're in... well that's just a club. We've probably all joined and left those things every semester.... The yo-yo club, the judo club, etc.

Where being challenging crosses the line is physical, verbal or mental abuse. I do not say this because I believe hazing has any merit at all. I simply view the candidacy period as a quest or a journey where one must make important choices and realize certain things about themselves and the organization they have chosen.
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