I remember it was a big deal for me when my ex BF used to go out on his South Pacific patrols. Everytime they docked in Guam they'd head over to the G-Spot...the only strip club in town. I had a major cow until I found out that the dancers there looked like cows. One of the Coastie wives went there and reported back to us that the guys just went there because of the cheap drinks. Most of the girls there weren't even worthy to be touched with a ten foot pole.

I didn't really have a problem with it after that. I think that most establishments have a 'no touching' policy, so I'm okay with that and I'd trust him if he went. As long as he's not paying $$$ for a lap dance, I'm okay with it. I've been to a few strip clubs myself so I kinda know what goes on...and I had a great time!