I really tried to refrain from commenting on this particular topic but I feel that I would be rather irresponsible if I didn't. This topic is one that I know very well and will probably stir emotion that I haven't felt in years. I've read MOST of the comments made and I have but one scenario to make. There was this girl that I was into when I was in college. She was gorgeous,(built like a triple crown winner, to explain for the bruhs)

happened to be dating a brother from another fraternity. We had classes together and things were cool between us. She would always find someway to conversate with me. But I respected the other brothers territory, after all I don't drink hater-aid. Any way one night after leaving the weight room, I saw her posted up with dude all in her face. They were arguing about something. So I walked by to say "what's up?" you know to break the tension. As I got closer, I saw him cock his fist back and snuff her like she was some thug! I ran over and caught his next one in mid air. He was so hype that he tried to swing on me,(those of you who know me, know that I'm 265lbs of frog waiting to jump in somebody's ass!!). So after I slammed him down, I tried to keep him calm. The next thing I know is that I feel pepper spray hit me in the face. It burned like hell!! When the campus police arrived, this BITCH told them that I attacked him and her. So now him and all of his punk ass frat were suppposedly looking for me. Not to mention all of the women on campus were convinced that I was some knd of woman beater. Needless to say that when I saw him or his bruhs, they acted like they wanted to make a truce. But it will never be cool on a personal level. Some of my best friends and family belong to this certain frat, so I have to let it go but if I could go back in time........So I ask when should we get involved?