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Originally posted by carnation
If my husband had the nerve to ask about Pi Phi secrets (he didn't even know that GLOs had any until we were married), I'd make up a few realistic-sounding ones. Why would your spouse want to know your ritual and worse yet, threaten trouble if you didn't spill it? I think it would be symptomatic of other problems.
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I was thinking the same thing. If it becomes a major trust issue where your spouse feels like you're keeping secrets from him/her, I would just make stuff up. How would they know? But then I guess that means you're lying to your spouse. Some people may have an even bigger problem with that.
My honey is a supportive non-Greek. He's jokingly asked my sorority's secrets but never expects to get an answer. He's not really interested in that aspect of SLU. I don't know how I'd feel if he insisted on knowing or felt I was keeping secrets from him if I refused to tell him. One thing I do know, I'd never spill the beans. I think it says so much about a person's character when they live up to the oath they've taken. How can anyone be mad about that?