If we are all urging smiley21 to keep an open mind, why don't we do the same?
There are misguided sororities of any type out there, and it's important to realize that just because they are NPC/NPHC/MCGLO, that does not necessarily mean they are perfect and what is best. Dionysus's opinions (however hotly disputed) are evidence of this. Whatever kind of sorority, look for what is best for you!! Keep your eyes and ears open for things that you like-strong sisterhood, good philanthropy, active social schedules-and things that could lead to trouble-hazing, excessive drinking, weak sisterhood.
Good luck with your search and be sure to post your recruitment story!